How should a nurse approach a toddler when first meeting them before a procedure?

When approaching a toddler before a procedure, establishing a rapport and making the child feel secure is essential for a positive interaction. Talking to the mother first can be beneficial because it provides the nurse with context about the toddler’s temperament, fears, or any previous experiences related to healthcare. This allows the nurse to gain insights that can help tailor the approach to the child’s needs.

Interacting with the mother can also make the toddler feel more comfortable, as children often look to their caregivers for cues about how to respond in new or potentially stressful situations. By engaging the mother through conversation, the nurse creates an environment of trust that can alleviate anxiety for both the parent and the child. Once the relationship is established, the nurse can more effectively communicate with the toddler and help them understand what to expect during the procedure.

Other options, such as holding or picking up the toddler immediately, may not be ideal. Many toddlers are naturally cautious and may not appreciate being held by someone they do not know. Immediately taking the child to a play area can also be overwhelming and might not provide the necessary reassurance from the mother. By initially communicating with the parent, the nurse ensures a smoother transition to engaging the toddler directly.